Touring Rock City's Rock Run Peddler Garden

"Potluck Group" Dona, Jill, Karen, Marlette, Jane, and Gwen
I’ve just returned from my third trip to Illinois this year. The purpose of this visit was my high school reunion. I had not attended one since the 20th and it wasn’t any easier to recognize people this time. The shock is how many of our classmates have passed away, 110 of the 770+. I had been campaigning for 2 of my friends with whom I shared both high school and college to join me. Fortunately they made the trip, one from Texas and one from Colorado. It was so good to see them again and renew old memories and catch up on all that happened in the intervening years. It was wonderful to also visit the three that had remained in Rockford and one from Madison Wisconsin. We totaled seven of our original 10 “Potluck” (social groups for Rockford girls during our school years) for dinner at Jane’s beautiful house on Friday night and were so busy enjoying our selves, the evening quickly slipped by and the opportunity to attend a 250 person class gathering was not an option. Some of us did attend the breakfast the next morning at the Stockholm Inn (great Swedish Pancakes) and proceeded to tour our old high school. This was a real kick as current seniors toured us around the hallways, classrooms, pool, locker rooms, gym and auditorium, all of which looked in great shape. We compared notes on our experiences, the most amusing of which was the answer to my question about the Home Ec rooms. The student hesitantly asked, “What is Home Ec?” Our class had been the last one before 2 new high schools opened and we had split shifts as well as one way stairs. That seemed amazing to the seniors who shared the school with 1500 students compared to our almost 3000. Saturday afternoon we had another small group reunion with classmates who’d worked on the many theatrical productions during our high school years. That didn’t leave much time to change and get to the class dinner at the country club. There it was difficult to circulate and find people but our small group enjoyed just being together again.

Front row: Dona, Janet, and Barbara
Back Row: Sandy, Karin, Gordan, and Burns
About a year ago 2 classmates who were active with our church youth group and I decided to try to find some members of that group who were in other classes and schools and see if we could reunite at the same time. It turned out to be more difficult than expected but we did have a few that gathered for an early breakfast on Sunday morning. We looked over old photos and talked about the good times we had experienced. There was enough enthusiasm to try to do it again with more people doing the searching.
At this point in life, it seems important to reconnect with those who remember us from the past. Perhaps it is a desire to remind ourselves of what our lives were like and how far we’ve come today. Part is nostalgia and part is sense that some of these people shared a special time with us and it is worth reliving through the stories of those days.